Myths About Non-Traditional Relationships
Out of everything in life to experience- LOVE is not the one to feel shortened by. Let’s take some time to shut down some stereotypes you may have about non-traditional relationships of all sorts.
#1 POLYGAMY & OPEN RELATIONSHIPS ARE FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE
False. Sex and pleasure are part of what can develop from these non-traditional dynamics but there are actually several reasons that these relationships are desired… emotional intimacy, connections with a larger community, exploring outside of lifestyle, and creating more love surrounding themselves.
#2 NON-TRADITIONAL RELATIONSHIPS ARE FOR A SPECIFC RELATIONSHIP STYLE
False again. All types of relationships engage in different styles and forms of non-traditional relationships. No exclusions. With that being said- these dynamics are not for the benefit of any ONE partner. There has to be a conversation and understanding between all involved of what boundaries are in place to uphold love and respect for each other.
#3 THESE DYNAMICS MEAN THERE’S A THROUPLE, RIGHT?
MAJOR false. There is NO one-way works for open dynamics. Realistically- yes, there are some dynamics that become a throuple. But there are also ones where both partners explore on their own. The only RIGHT way to do a dynamic like this is to work is for it to be a discussion and continued over time between all involved.
Here’s some good resources for reading and exploring this topic if you’re still curious after this blog:
If you are curious about navigating these dynamics in your own relationships, it could be helpful to get a skilled poly-friendly/non-traditional therapist involved. Sydney, Lexis, and Kiesha are all great people to work with when it comes to navigating these potentially tricky relationship styles. Click here to book a free 10 minute consult with one of our bad-ass therapists!
